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Support for people exploring:

Non-monogamy, kink, desire, boundaries, communication, and relationship complexity—with a grounded, affirming, non-judgmental approach.

  • Ethical non-monogamy & poly dynamics

  • Kink & BDSM relationships

  • Desire differences

  • Boundaries & consent

  • Communication & relationship repair

  • Shame, inhibition, & sexual confidence

Hi, I'm Shana Graham.

I’m a Sexual Wellness & Relationship Coach and Board-Certified Somatic Sexologist.

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I work with individuals, couples, and people in all kinds of relationship structures to explore desire, strengthen communication, and build relationships that actually feel good to live inside.

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My work is sex-positive, kink-aware, and LGBTQ+ affirming.

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Sex-positive • kink-aware • LGBTQ+ affirming

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