Found this at SEAF? You're in the right place.
Curious to go deeper into what you felt at the "Write Your Desire" workshop?
I've put together a Core Desires guide to help you keep exploring. Inside, you'll find:
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A clearer understanding of the feelings at the center of your desire
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Context for where those desires come from and why they can feel so strong
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Ways to recognize your CDs in your fantasies, habits, and past experiences
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Practical ways to start bringing those feelings into your real-life creative and erotic experiences
Free Guide
Core Desires: A Backgrounder for Erotic Self-Discovery
Support for people exploring:
Non-monogamy, kink, desire, boundaries, communication, and relationship complexity—with a grounded, affirming, non-judgmental approach.
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Ethical non-monogamy & poly dynamics
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Kink & BDSM relationships
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Desire differences
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Boundaries & consent
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Communication & relationship repair
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Shame, inhibition, & sexual confidence
Hi, I'm Shana Graham.
I’m a Sexual Wellness & Relationship Coach and Board-Certified Somatic Sexologist.
I work with individuals, couples, and people in all kinds of relationship structures to explore desire, strengthen communication, and build relationships that actually feel good to live inside.
My work is sex-positive, kink-aware, and LGBTQ+ affirming.
