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Sex, desire, and relationships can be complicated.

Questions & challenges around intimacy are incredibly common.

You don't have to navigate them alone.

If your provider sent you here, welcome. I support people working through sexual concerns, desire changes, relationship challenges, and questions about intimacy with warmth, skill, and care.

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Support with things like:

  • Changes in sexual desire or arousal

  • Pain, tension, or anxiety around sex

  • Difficulty with orgasm or pleasure

  • Mismatched desire between partners

  • Communication and intimacy challenges

  • Questions about relationships, boundaries, or identity

Get a free guide to help you begin.

This short guide offers practical, compassionate tools for understanding intimacy challenges and taking a first step toward more clarity, connection, and ease.

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When Sex Feels Complicated: Understanding Desire, Arousal, and Intimacy Challenges

Hi, I'm Shana Graham.

I’m a Sexual Wellness & Relationship Coach and Board-Certified Somatic Sexologist.

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I work with individuals, couples, and people in all kinds of relationship structures to explore sexual concerns, strengthen communication, and build relationships that feel more connected, clear, and satisfying.

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My work is sex-positive, kink-aware, and LGBTQ+ affirming, and grounded in emotional, relational, and somatic body-based approaches.

Want to talk it through?

I offer free consultations (via teleheath) so you can ask questions, share what you’re looking for, and get a feel for whether working together might be a good fit.

Sex-positive • kink-aware • LGBTQ+ affirming

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